Want to ruin your
child? Want to make him or her bitter, angry, frustrated,
feel self-defeated, lack self-confidence, have low esteem, be depressed, anti-social or have any of these disorders? Here are some easy steps to follow:
***>SPOIL HIM…give him anything he wants,
even more than you can afford so you can get him off your back…and when he does wrong, nag him a little but don’t
correct him or spank him.
***>FOSTER HIS DEPENDENCE ON YOU…don’t teach him to be independently responsible, maintain
his dependence on you so later on drugs and alcohol can replace you when he’s older.
***>MAKE ALL OF HIS DECISIONS FOR HIM because
if you don’t, he might make some mistakes and learn from them, finding that the consequences will make him more responsible.
***>WHENEVER HE GETS INTO TROUBLE, bail him out…besides, if he gets in bad trouble it might hurt your
reputation as his parent for not teaching him right from wrong.
*** >NEVER LET HIM SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES for his behavior or actions and always step in to solve his problems for
him so he’ll depend on you and run to you when the going gets tough, never learning how to solve his own problems in
most all areas of his life.
*** >ALWAYS CRITICIZE his father or mother to him so your son or daughter will lose respect for his parents which
can cause him to have disrespect for others as he grows up.
*** >PROTECT HIM from all those mean teachers who, looking out for his best interest may have to correct
him sometimes, and threaten to sue them if they don’t leave him alone.
*** >LET HIM EXPRESS HIMSELF anyway he feels like it as in the way he dresses or the music he listens to or the television
programs he watches to help him become a delinquent.
*** >DON’T RUN HIS LIFE …let him run yours so he can do what he wants, whenever.
*** >DON’T BOTHER HIM WITH CHORES, do everything for him…then he can be irresponsible all his life,
blame others when things don’t get done right, or do things on his own.
*** >BE SURE TO GIVE IN when he throws a temper tantrum, and be a weak parent.
*** >BELIEVE HIS LIES because it’s too much hassle to sort through to get the truth.
*** >CRITICIZE OTHERS OPENLY AND ROUTINELY so that he will continue to realize that he is better than everybody else
is and this will help to promote arrogance.
*** >GIVE HIM A BIG ALLOWANCE and don’t make him do anything for it, let it be free.
*** >PRAISE HIM FOR HIS GOOD LOOKS…and not for his character or personality.
*** >BE CRITICAL, SNOBBISH, DOMINEERING and you’ll have an obsessive child.
*** >IGNORE THE CHILD OR FIGHT WITH EACH OTHER
and you’ll have an accident prone child because he
may hurt himself to get your attention or the affection he needs.
*** >OVERPROTECTION…fence him in, never trust him. Don’t give him the opportunity to develop independence.
Deprivation will instill an angry mood. Parents must give children the room to express themselves, to discover their world,
to try a new adventure, gradually releasing them to live independently. Overprotection frustrates him, making it hard to build
self-confidence.
*** >FAVORITISM…love them the same without regard to avoid emotional damage.
*** >HARSH
ACHIEVEMENT GOALS…expect what is adequate…not
perfection.
*** >DISCOURAGEMENT…lack of understanding and reward both destroy motivation and incentive.
Grant them a listening ear and an understanding heart. Guide them in the right direction. Reward them graciously and generously
with love and approval for what they try to accomplish. Be patient with them or they’ll feel defeated and discouraged,
which turns to anger.
*** >ABUSIVE WORDS…a child has a very limited vocabulary and you have a very comprehensive one. A barrage of
well chosen words from your vocabulary can cut that little heart to shreds. The most devastating messages sent are words of
anger, sarcasm or ridicule.
*** --IN FATHERLESS HOMES -- ***
85%>BEHAVIORAL
/ EMOTIONAL DISORDERS,
71%>HIGHSCHOOL
DROP OUTS,
75%>CHEMICAL ABUSE,
71%>TEENAGE PREGNANCIES,
75%>LIVE IN POVERTY,
90%>RUN
AWAY FROM HOME,
85%>PRISON,
63%>SUICIDE
